Ryan O'Neal, 'Love Story' actor who was longtime partner of Farrah Fawcett, dead at 82

Posted by Martina Birk on Thursday, May 2, 2024

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Ryan O’Neal, the prolific, Oscar-nominated actor for his role in 1970’s “Love Story” and two-time Golden Globe nominee, has died. He was 82.

His son, 56-year-old actor Patrick O’Neal, confirmed the news on his Instagram account Friday.

“So this is the toughest thing I’ve ever had to say but here we go. My dad passed away peacefully today, with his loving team by his side supporting him and loving him as he would us,” he wrote.

“My father Ryan O’Neal has always been my hero. I looked up to him and he was always bigger than life,” he continued. “As a human being, my father was as generous as they come. And the funniest person in any room. And the most handsome clearly, but also the most charming. Lethal combo. He loved to make people laugh. It’s pretty much his goal. Didn’t matter the situation, if there was a joke to be found, he nailed it. He really wanted us laughing. And we did all laugh. Every time. We had fun. Fun in the sun.”

“As my father, he was second to none. The best and most loving and supportive dad, and I am just so lucky to have had him,” he continued. “We loved playing/watching sports together. Some great frisbee throws on the beach that would last all weekend long. For years. That was our bond.”

O’Neal became a household name when he starred in 1970’s “Love Story” opposite Ali MacGraw. He earned an Academy Award nomination playing Oliver, who made us believe that “Love means never having to say you’re sorry.” Courtesy Everett Collection

O’Neal was diagnosed with leukemia in 2001 and with prostate cancer in 2012. He initially stated it was Stage 4 cancer before later clarifying it was Stage 2. He underwent back surgery in 2017 and famously suffered from alcoholism and drug abuse over the years. His cause of death is still unknown.

The Post has reached out to O’Neal’s rep for comment.

Born Charles Patrick Ryan O’Neal in LA on April 20, 1941, O’Neal was the son of actress Patricia Ruth Olga and novelist/screenwriter Charles O’Neal.

Before he got into acting, O’Neal trained to become a professional boxer, competing in two Golden Gloves championships in LA in the 1950s. His amateur fighting record is 18 wins to four losses, with 13 knockouts.

Ryan O’Neal gave a knockout performance with Barbra Streisand in 1979’s “The Main Event.” ©Warner Bros/Courtesy Everett Collection

His family moved to Germany for his dad’s job when O’Neal was in high school. He struggled at his new Munich school, so he became an extra and stuntman on a local show, sparking his interest in acting.

O’Neal returned to the States to pursue performing and landed several roles on TV shows, including “The Many Loves of Dobie Gillis,” “The Untouchables,” “Leave It To Beaver” and “The Virginian.” He regularly appeared on NBC’s Western series “Empire” from 1962 to 1963.

His first big acting break came in 1964 as Rodney Harrington in the TV drama “Peyton Place.” That led to several movie credits, including his first leading film role in 1969’s “The Big Bounce.”

O’Neal became a household name when he starred in 1970’s “Love Story” opposite Ali MacGraw. He earned an Academy Award nomination for Best Actor in a Leading Role playing Oliver, who made us believe that “Love means never having to say you’re sorry.”

Ryan O’Neal got cozy with Barbra Streisand in the 1972 film “What’s Up, Doc?” Courtesy Everett Collection

“We didn’t have to build chemistry,” O’Neal told the Hollywood Reporter in 2000 in celebration of the film’s 50th anniversary. “It was there, built in.”

The film went on to earn $136.4 million globally ($915.7 million today) and garnered seven total Oscar nominations.

“Knowing very well the events that were going on in the world — anti-Vietnam and worrying about all kinds of stuff — I think people may have been ready for something sentimental,” added MacGraw.

O’Neal also starred in the third highest grossing film in 1972, “What’s Up, Doc?,” opposite Barbra Streisand.

Ryan O’Neal starred as Jack Ryan in 1969’s “The Big Bounce.” Courtesy Everett Collection

“I learned more about comedy from Barbara than anyone,” he told The Hollywood Reporter 50 years after the film debuted. “I only wish Peter was here to celebrate the 50th year with us. May he rest in peace.”

His other notable works include “Paper Moon,” “Barry Lyndon,” “A Bridge Too Far” and “The Main Event.”

O’Neal’s final TV appearances came on 24 episodes of “Bones,” ending in 2017. He and his only daughter, Tatum O’Neal, also invited cameras to watch as they tried to repair their father/daughter relationship on “Ryan and Tatum: The O’Neals” in 2011.

His final film, a horror movie titled “The Waste Lands,” is in development, according to IMDb.

O’Neal was also well-known for his high-profile romances. He was married to Joanna Moore from 1963 to 1967. They had two children: Tatum and Griffin. He wed Leigh-Taylor Young in 1967, and they had a son, Patrick. The couple divorced in 1971.

Tatum O’Neal sits with father Ryan O’Neal at a screening in Hollywood in 1973. Mediapunch/Shutterstock

He and Farrah Fawcett, meanwhile, famously had a tumultuous on-and-off relationship, first from 1979 to 1997, and then from 2001 until her death in 2009. They had one son together, Redmond, now 35, in 1985. They never married.

The relationship between O’Neal and the “Charlie’s Angels” actress was reportedly ruined by his infidelity and hot temper. The couple called it quits the first time after Fawcett found O’Neal in bed with actress Leslie Stefanson.

“I got married at 21, and I was not a real mature 21,” O’Neal told Vanity Fair in 2009 about his cheating ways. “My first child was born when I was 22. I was a man’s man; I didn’t discover women until I was married, and then it was too late.”

The late actor often made headlines for his troubled relationship with Fawcett and his estrangement from his children.

Ryan O’Neal and Farrah Fawcett famously had a tumultuous on-and-off relationship, first from 1979 to 1997, and then from 2001 until her death in 2009. DMI/The LIFE Picture Collection/Shutterstock

His drug abuse caused a rift from his three oldest kids for several years. Tatum and Griffin have spoken about how O’Neal’s struggles affected their family, and Griffin even claimed that his dad gave him cocaine when he was 11 and “insisted” he take it.

“He was a very abusive, narcissistic psychopath. He gets so mad he can’t control anything he’s doing,” Griffin added in Vanity Fair.

“I’m a hopeless father. I don’t know why,” O’Neal admitted to the mag in 2009. “I don’t think I was supposed to be a father. Just look around at my work — they’re either in jail or they should be.”

Farrah Fawcett and Ryan O’Neal attend the 1989 New York premiere of “Chances Are.” Getty Images

“I have nice grandchildren, though,” he added.

O’Neal was arrested in 2007 for shooting at Griffin, which he claimed was self-defense. The charges were dropped, but O’Neal still refused to let Griffin attend Fawcett’s 2009 funeral after she died on June 25, 2009, at age 62 of anal cancer.

“I came from a not-so-nice kind of a world,” Griffin said of Fawcett on “Larry King Live” that same year. “We were a kind of a battling and kind of crazy family. And she was so nice … And the crazy, sad part was that she stayed nice all the way to the end.”

Ryan O’Neal (seen here in 1961) got his first big acting break in 1964 as Rodney Harrington in the TV drama “Peyton Place.” Everett Collection / Everett Collection

“It broke my heart when I was not allowed in to say goodbye to her.”

Ten years after the death of Fawcett, O’Neal reflected on his longtime love to People. “There was never a day I didn’t love her,” he said.

A few weeks before she died, O’Neal proposed to her.

“He never left her side, especially those last few months,” Fawcett’s close friend Alana Stewart said at the time. “I think they would’ve married if she had made it because he asked her to marry him in the hospital and she said yes. But she took a turn for the worse. This was just a few weeks before the end, so perhaps it wasn’t realistic. The two of them had a deep bond and deep love. No matter what they went through, the ups and downs, he was the one she wanted by her side.”

Ryan O’Neal speaks during the American Humane Association Hero Dog Awards 2013 held at the Beverly Hilton Hotel on Saturday, Oct. 5, 2013, in Beverly Hills, Calif. Getty Images

O’Neal famously hit on Tatum by accident at the funeral.

“I had just put the casket in the hearse and I was watching it drive away when a beautiful blonde woman comes up and embraces me … I said to her, ‘You have a drink on you? You have a car?’ She said ‘Daddy, it’s me — Tatum!’ I was just trying to be funny with a strange Swedish woman, and it’s my daughter. It’s so sick,” O’Neal recalled to Vanity Fair.

“That’s our relationship in a nutshell,” Tatum explained to the publication. “You make of it what you will. It had been a few years since we’d seen each other and he was always a ladies’ man, a bon vivant.”

Ryan O’Neal showed off his movie star good looks in 1978’s “The Driver.” ©20thCentFox/Courtesy Everett Collection

Griffin and Tatum both struggled with drug addiction but have since gotten their lives back on a healthy track. Tatum wrote in her 2001 memoir, “A Paper Life,” that the children’s troubled ways developed from their father’s mental and physical abuse in their youth.

“When your parents are off getting drunk or high, they are not watching what happens to their children. I suffered years of abuse, both emotional and sexual,” she said of O’Neal and Moore.

O’Neal and Redmond, meanwhile, were arrested for possession of what authorities believed to be methamphetamine at the actor’s Malibu home in 2008. They were held and released at a local sheriff’s station after each posting $10,000 bonds.

Redmond is in the Patton State Psychiatric Hospital in San Bernardino after a string of charges in Southern California in 2018, according to online court records.

Ryan and Patrick O’Neal smile on his 82nd birthday. Instagram/@patrick_oneal

In May 2018, he allegedly attacked and stabbed five men in unprovoked confrontations, leaving one in a pool of blood. Days later, he was arrested for attempted murder, robbery, assault and drug possession for allegedly robbing a 7-11 store at knifepoint.

He, too, blamed his parents for his troubles in a 2018 interview with RadarOnline from jail.

“It’s not the drugs that have been a problem, it’s the psychological trauma of my entire life — my whole life experiences have affected me the most,” he insisted.

“Fighting with my father, being kicked out and living on the streets, going to jail, being put in a psychiatric ward, being embarrassed all the time, just because of who my parents are.”

Ryan O’Neal celebrated his 82nd birthday with daughter Tatum O’Neal on April 20, 2023. Tatum O'Neal

“The pressure that came with that set off a time-bomb in my head. I never asked for any of this, I never wanted any attention,” Redmond told the outlet.

O’Neal turned 82 on April 20. Tatum and Patrick shared separate photos celebrating with their dad via Instagram.

“Happy birthday dad I love you,” Tatum wrote. Patrick, for his part, wrote: “Honor and a privilege to share time with my dad on his 82nd birthday. 4/20 whoop whoop!!”

O’Neal is survived by his four children and five grandchildren.

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